My eyes exploded as I took in the scenery around me when we finally pulled up to the beach. The sand was white and didn’t seem to ever stop, the water was so blue it made the sky seem dull, and the waves were big and inviting. I couldn’t get out of the car fast enough to start taking pictures. Everyone jumped out, laid down their towels and sprinted into the salty water of the Atlantic Ocean. I was a little timid at first, but once my toes touched the shoreline, I couldn’t hold back my excitement any longer. I leaped over the waves that were coming in to get a little more than waist deep. The water was cool and warm at the same time; it felt great under the blazing afternoon sun. The others could not believe that that was my first time ever being to the ocean, my first time tasting its salty waters (which is really gross, but doesn’t take away from how beautiful it is). After letting a few waves sweep my feet of the ground and put them gently back down a few times, I went a little deeper. At one point I actually had to swim because I couldn’t touch the ground anymore, but that wasn’t a problem (thanks mom for throwing me in a pool before I could walk, it’s been keeping me alive out here). After feeling thoroughly saturated in salt and seaweed, I got out and laid on my towel. I remembered I still had awful tan lines from rafting, so I decided to try and even them out. For the first time in weeks, I just sat listening to my iPod, doing nothing but taking in the magnificence of God’s creations.
Monday, July 30, 2012
Vamos a La Playa
My eyes exploded as I took in the scenery around me when we finally pulled up to the beach. The sand was white and didn’t seem to ever stop, the water was so blue it made the sky seem dull, and the waves were big and inviting. I couldn’t get out of the car fast enough to start taking pictures. Everyone jumped out, laid down their towels and sprinted into the salty water of the Atlantic Ocean. I was a little timid at first, but once my toes touched the shoreline, I couldn’t hold back my excitement any longer. I leaped over the waves that were coming in to get a little more than waist deep. The water was cool and warm at the same time; it felt great under the blazing afternoon sun. The others could not believe that that was my first time ever being to the ocean, my first time tasting its salty waters (which is really gross, but doesn’t take away from how beautiful it is). After letting a few waves sweep my feet of the ground and put them gently back down a few times, I went a little deeper. At one point I actually had to swim because I couldn’t touch the ground anymore, but that wasn’t a problem (thanks mom for throwing me in a pool before I could walk, it’s been keeping me alive out here). After feeling thoroughly saturated in salt and seaweed, I got out and laid on my towel. I remembered I still had awful tan lines from rafting, so I decided to try and even them out. For the first time in weeks, I just sat listening to my iPod, doing nothing but taking in the magnificence of God’s creations.
...Porque No!!!
At one point it was just three of us sitting there, the
other two clearly American, and me, the possible Dominican, maybe Cuban, one of
the bunch. This one guy comes up and starts talking to the other two, and
doesn’t even notice me as I was playing Tetris on my cell phone. I even laughed
at how awkward of an encounter it was, and he didn’t realize that I too was
American. The receptionist is laughing at this man’s attempts to speak English
and hold a conversation, and we exchange a few glances trying not to explode in
laughter at how comical it was. This guy was such a creeper, he wanted to know
their names, where they were from, if they had boyfriends, it they wanted to
marry him… it was so weird, but very funny at the expense of others. The guy
found out one was from Michigan, and said when he lived in Boston, he had to
take his aunt to the Michigan Hospital for some kind of operation, and that was
weird, because most people in this country think that New York is the United
States and that Boston is a city in New York, which is close to Chicago (aka
they don’t know anything about the geographical make up of the US). So it was
weird that he knew where Michigan was since most people have no idea and it’s
as safe to say I’m from Michigan as it is to say I’m from North America. One
girl interviewed him for his project and he was turned off when he didn’t get
paid for participating and finally went away.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
A Whole New World
We had all piled into two vans, luggage stuffed into the
back of one, and the overflow strapped to the top with a combination of twine,
rope, and bungee cords. The air was hot and unforgiving inside the van with
eleven bodies all squished together on the pleather seats that slid beneath our
sweaty legs. The air conditioning was on, but the fans were so weak that they
only reached the heads directly below them, leaving most of us stuck breathing
in hot recycled air. We were only about 30 minutes onto the road and we were
already ready to get out. I cracked the window beside me, even though I knew
the air was on, and the breeze created temporary relief from the heat, until
the morning air turned into the afternoon hotbox. The driver was playing what
must have been his American Top 40s, Hip-Hop and R&B playlist from his
iPod. We were serenaded by Yeah by
Usher, Without Me Eminem, and We Found Love by Rihanna, which
comforted us for a while as we pended the unknown that we were about to be
thrown into.
What was ahead of us was a dark mystery that we tried to be
positive about, but it was hard to do since we had only heard two good things
about the campo: 1) Less tigueres and 2) It’s beautiful. After
four hours of being cramped in our vans, two stops on the side of the road for
carsick passengers, three stops for gas and snacks, we finally made it to La Esquina, the campo that’s somewhere
between Nagua and Cabrera, but isn’t on any map we’ve ever seen. Well it was
true that it was a beautiful place, as we drove up the mountain and dropped
everyone off at their new homes one by one, I could see the huge pastures of
grazing cattle, the palm trees in the distance, sunflowers and orchids in front
of every house and the prettiest birds I had ever seen, but there was one eye
sore; the houses. Many houses were made of cement with tin roofs, but there
were also just as many made of weathered wood, that look like they have endured
a hurricane or two. There were also a few very modern, western style houses
that were completely made of cement with modern colors on the exterior, not the
bright oranges and pinks that you saw on the other houses, but of course those
were not the houses they were taking us to.
It took me about half an hour to actually reach the house I
would be staying in for the next three weeks, since I lived the farthest up the
hill. The last one to get dropped off, the anxiety I felt waiting in the van
grew in my belly and I tried to calm myself down to keep from vomiting up the
Doritos I had eaten about an hour before. There were three others to drop off
before me, so I prayed for the last seven minutes of waiting, not wanting to
have a horrified look on my face when I met my host family for the first time.
Well I was calmer when I got to my house, but I still looked horrified. I
looked in the direction of the finger of my director who was pointing out my
house and it lead to a little wooden house painted Pepto pink and lime green.
In the doorway stood a little old lady, who I later learned was called Maria.
She was to be my host mom (well grandma) along with her husband Oscar, my host
grandpa.
Maria showed me to my bedroom,
where I was greeted by a very bright pink bed spread, a window that was wide
open with no glass or screen, and a wooden vanity. I thought I was going to
puke, there was so much pink. The sunlight that came in through the window had
reflected onto the walls making them also appear to be pink. (For those of you
who do not know me very well, me and pink do NOT get along…at all. It is by far
my least favorite thing in the world. I hate it more than almost anything else,
it’s almost up there with murderers, rapists, and child abusers…yes, that high
on the list.) So yes, I had a pink room in a pink house… perfect -_-. I decided
that I could stomach the pink room when I saw that I had a personal fan in the
room too. That would make this experience much better.
First impressions say a lot, and
I can honestly say that this has not had a great first impression on me. But
impressions change, and I can only hope and pray that this one will leave a
much better impression, and soon. I’m not sure I can handle three weeks of ant
food and all pink everything.
Sunday, July 8, 2012
So Hard to Say Goodbye
This was by far the absolute longest dinner I have ever had.
We left at 7, were seated at 8:30, ordered our food at 9, and got our food at
9:43. The place closed at 10pm. We finished eating at around 10:30 or so, well
maybe a little later as we were taking our time. Then it took us forever to get
our checks. Once they came, it took them forever to pick them up. The bills
were wrong, probably because they had two guys taking orders together, trying
to take them in English, even though we were giving it to them in Spanish. One
side of the table to the other took about thirty minutes to get orders in. It
was ridiculous. It took so long that our taxi drivers were getting mad because
it was taking us so long (although I’m not sure why they were mad because they
ate at the restaurant too, and saw firsthand how long it was taking, but…).
They had an issue with giving people who paid in cash their change back. On one
bill it was all in cash except for one card, and the waiter thought all the
cash that was in the book was a tip and charged the whole bill on this one girls
card…that was about to get ugly, but they finally fixed it. Once we got bills
settled, we finally left at like 11pm. Nobody went out that night, arguing with
waiters takes a lot of energy out of you.
That week I also had a lot of interviews to do around the
community. Having people sit down and answer a lot of personal questions is an
extremely hard thing to do in the United States, and you usually have to spend
a lot of time pleading your case with people to get them to care even a little
bit about what you’re researching. The upside to doing research in the States,
however, is that you can do a lot of work online, that way surveys are done
when it’s convenient for the participant to complete it, it doesn’t seem as
invasive because you’re not staring directly at the person who is giving you
the information, and it gives a lot of people a better sense of privacy and anonymity.
So naturally, without access to these online resources, I was extremely nervous
and anxious about going into people’s houses and asking them, in my less than
perfect Spanish, a billion questions about themselves.
Now my research is on the differences in breastfeeding
practices between urban and rural Dominican Republic…basically. In the United
States, if I were to walk up to a person’s house and say “hi, I’m a student, I
need to know how you breastfed your children” that would be a little awkward,
right? Yeah, well, apparently not. Here in the DR, nobody looked me weird like
I had an extra head growing out of my left ear and a hand protruding from my
nose. Everyone was very open to sharing. Actually the hard part of my data
collection was keeping people’s answers brief and to the point (Dominican women
really like to talk and share
stories). But even though the people here are very open, old habits die hard
and I still felt extremely awkward approaching people.
That Wednesday was the 4th of July, the great
American holiday; just another day in the DR. Being the super Americans that we
are, we all wore some form of red white and blue to class that day. It wasn’t
until then that we really noticed that those are the same colors of the
Dominican flag. On our walk to school that morning, feeling deprived of the
smell of barbeques firing up, and fresh fruit being chopped, we serenaded
ourselves with the Preamble from School House Rock. “We the people, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice
and ensure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the
general welfare and…..Do or ordain and establish this Constitution for the
United States of America!” We couldn’t remember the fifth line…and still
can’t remember… so we just hummed around it (if you know the words, please
comment them!). We had been discussing for a while how we should go about
celebrating our Independence, and settled on a trip to the river and burgers
from Carlos at Mi Tio Café. Because of
being so behind in collecting data, I skipped the swimming and met up with
everyone later.
The next morning was a very sad day. I didn’t want to leave
my new family. I was just getting close with them, and now I had to go my
separate ways. It was very tragic. I told my host mom I wasn’t going to cry,
but as soon as I got in the car, it was over. I don’t know what the campo has
to offer me, but I know it has some very, very
large shoes to fill. The car ride will be long, so hopefully by the time I get
there I will be more open minded about leaving Jarabacoa.
Friday, July 6, 2012
Alta Gracia
We returned to the factory for an informative Q and A
session and then had a Bandera lunch,
as usual. The day was sort of long, having driven almost all the way back to
Santo Domingo, but it was a good reality check to see what people had to deal
with, and these were the people who caught a good break with this job, as they
only have about 40 or 50 employees.
Sunday, July 1, 2012
GET DOWN!!!
After our crash course, we had to suit up. They gave us all
the black wet suits that looked like Styrofoam wrestling uniforms, helmets, and
life jackets to wear over our swimsuits. We climbed into two big
open-bus-type-truck things that lugged us and our rafts across town to the
river. On the way there the employees, all men, were jumping around like
monkeys, climbing on the outside of the buses, bouncing off the rafts, grabbing
branches from low hanging trees, throwing leaves at each other. They were like
professional frat boys. Hugo and Frances, a couple of blokes we had met before
from one of our facilitators at the discoteca, were the most rowdy of them all.
They were especially fond of picking flowers from the trees and presenting them
to various girls on the bus.
Once at the river, they divided us up into our various boats
and gave us yet another rafting 101 crash course, this time interactive. Before long we were all in the water, ready
to tackle the rapids. Apparently we were the only ones ready because we just
sat in the water, anchored to the bank for about five minutes. Once we finally
took off down the river, our guide, who ended up being Hugo, which is
pronounced like Ugo, not with the H sound (because that would mean his name was
Juice), decided to test us on all the commands we just practiced on the bank. Watching
us adjust our seats a hundred times must have been real entertainment for Hugo,
because he would tell us a command, like “GET DOWN!” in as panicked a voice as
he could muster, and then tell us to go back to our positions after a few
seconds. Not to mention that he would do them at inappropriate times, so it was
useless for us to do most of what he was telling us to do. It didn’t take long
for us to catch on, so we decided to use our brains and only follow his
instructions when it made sense to.
Realizing that he had been thwarted, he resorted to the next
best thing, swimming. Hugo liked very much to tie us down to some bank and just
jump into the water for a casual swim. He even at one point had us hold on to
some weeds so he could climb up some rocks and belly flop into the river, which
I’m pretty sure was not deep enough for him to do that safely. He and his frat
brothers would take turns doing dangerous head-first stunts into the river, and
we cringed at every trick. Hugo did a very impressive three turn dive from a rock in the middle of the river,
that we were just sure he was going to break his neck upon hitting the ground
of the river, but he miraculously resurfaced, without so much as a scratch on
him. He was a pro.
He thought it would be funny to give us all silly
decorations to put into our helmets, but I resisted as we were putting weeds on
our heads. Hugo specialized in humiliation, we realized, as he pulled the one
girl in our boat who couldn’t really swim well into the water unannounced, and
then rescuing his damsel in distress. We also ran into a lot of rapids that
almost took our faces off. The first one created such a splash in our faces
that we couldn’t fight it, and we found ourselves struggling to keep our raft from
tipping over. Another time, after ramming into another raft, helping them out
of the jam they found themselves in between a rock and a hard place, our boat
was traumatized by the rapids and from being out of rhythm due to the previous
collision, that we again proceeded to tip the one side, two of our girls
basically in the water. April especially was head first, bottoms up in the
water just when Kathryn’s newfound mother instincts kicked in, rescuing her by
a swift grab to April’s life jacket. It was so fast, it took all of us a moment
to process what had just happened.
Somewhere along the way, we stopped for juice and
sandwiches, because we were so extremely famished from our lack of rafting. All
the stop and goes were really hard to deal with, so we, apparently, had worked
up quite an appetite. They fed us ham and butter sandwiches, which are gross,
and some strawberry juice, which was refreshing. We had to eat fast, because we
were quickly being approached by bulls. Literally. Bulls. I’m not lying to you.
Once back in the boat, we refused to make half of the stops that Hugo had
scheduled for us because we realized that we had spent most of that morning
floating on the bank instead of fighting rapids. Understanding our frustration,
Hugo let some of the stops go, but of course he couldn’t ignore all of them so
we stopped every 5 minutes instead of every three.
At the end of the run, we
were the only boat to successfully make it to the end without tipping over,
because we’re pros. One boat had a really bad crash, one guy broke his nose
from the collision. It was pretty bad, and to be honest, I’m not really sure
how it managed to happen since we rode the same course they rode, and it was
very mild (and that’s coming from someone who’d never been rafting before).
Once everyone finished the course, they loaded us back onto
the buses and took us back to Rancho Baiguate, where they tried to sell us
crappy photos of ourselves. The lunch that we were served was, of course, La
Bandera, which was a nice treat still. Oddly enough, even though you eat it
almost every day here, you are always grateful for rice, beans and chicken,
mostly because you know what it is, and you know it won’t make you sick. We
lingered at the resort for a while, admiring our awkward tanlines, taking a dip in the chlorinated pool (a
feature we were very excited about), playing a little volleyball. We almost
didn’t want to leave, but then a giant group of Dominican middle school-ers
showed up, and it was time to go.
Las Cascadas
I let my hands
explore the ground of the river, stumbling upon an infinite number of rocks and
leaves. The rocks were sharp under my feet while I was wading, but sitting on
them they were coated with a thin smooth blanket of clay. My fingers found some
rocks that were a rust color that stood out under the water. There were also
some stones that were smooth and bright blue. I started a meager collection in
my lap of the blue and rust colored rocks, figuring they would make nice
decoration pieces in my living room later. Conscious of the extra weight I was
adding to my luggage, I was searching for only the most intriguing of the
stones to keep with me for the journey back. Eventually Katerin and Puchi
helped me find some keepsakes. Puchi even found a blue one shaped like a hand
gun, but we left it there for some other wanderer to stumble upon. Once my
collection was decent, I decided to shift my focus to looking for small,
smooth, flat stones. I could fit about five in my hand without losing them to
the current again, and once I had them, I showed my brother how to skip the
stones down the river. It was difficult to explain how to properly throw a
stone to make it ricochet off the current multiple times in a different
language (skipping stones is not on the list of vocabulary words we’re taught
in school).
Soon the storm that was just up the river was catching up to
us, and the sky decided to pour out all the water it could muster. The rain
started abruptly and almost everyone retreated up the bank to the bar or to
their cars. We waited by the bar to see if the rain would subside within a
reasonable time. The rain seemed to be absorbed by the river, and the water
level gracefully rose without hesitation. I let my eyes wander up the bank,
tracing the waterline. The horse was still on the opposite bank, in the same
spot, but the water was quickly rising to meet his hooves. We eventually gave
up on being able to retreat to the river, so we got back in the truck and
started for home. We hadn’t been in the car for more than five minutes when the
rain halted as abruptly as it started. We looked at each other and laughed; a
universal communication we all shared. Katerin and Puchi had been hiding under
a towel on the bed of the truck, but when they realized the rain had stopped,
they emerged from under their makeshift shelter like baby sea turtles seeing
above ground for the first time.
We finally stopped at a sign that said “Salto Baiguate” and
we knew we had arrived. We had to hike a little to get to the waterfall, but
the closer we got to it, the more the earth revealed itself to us. It was much
like walking through the gorges in Ithica, where you could see both the tops
and trunks of trees at the same time. The sound of rushing water got louder and
louder as we neared our destination. We were getting more anxious to see this
natural wonder and our paces quickened, like we were being pulled in by a
magnet. There was a set of stairs that took us down into the base of a
waterfall. We hopped down them, trying not to fall, intimidated by how steep
they were. Naturally there were a gazillion photos being snapped as soon as we
caught sight of the waterfall. We were overwhelmed with being able to swim for
the first time in this sweltering country, and by how beautiful everything was.
There was a little cove under the waterfall that a few people were brave enough
to venture out to. Still afraid of swallowing water accidentally, I stayed in
waist-deep water again. We ventured around in the river, taking spunky photos
of each other and the scenery. There were so many wonders to be discovered in
such a small area.
La Bandera
Speaking of family, I have an update. They’re awesome (but
not quite as awesome as my real family).
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